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Understand the Ego Trap
Guilt as Glue
“If I give enough, they should stay loyal. If they owe me, I won't be left empty.”
Watch Your Mind
Wrong-mindedness: The wrong mind watches for what can be gained, kept, and used to make closeness feel binding instead of free.
Right-mindedness: I stay vigilant for the hidden demand beneath affection, because joining asks nothing and leaves no debt behind.
Carry This With You
Closeness used for getting still leaves you alone.