~1 min
Hear the Ego
“Maybe forgiveness works later, but right now it costs too much. First I lose the grievance, the leverage, the proof—then maybe someday I’ll feel better.”
Hear the Correction
“The pain is in the postponement, not in forgiveness. A shift in teacher gives you a present taste of relief.”
Sit With This
Sacrifice survives by turning forgiveness into loss now and gain later.